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Tips to Boost Your Job Interview Confidence
by
Carole Martin, The Interview Coach
You say you’re feeling nervous about
interviewing? Guess what - so is everybody else. It is very common to be nervous
before the interview. It’s also OK to be nervous. Being anxious can raise your
energy level and that’s a good thing.
Here are some other tips that will raise your
energy and your confidence.
Demeanor, and Attitude
can mean a great deal in the interview. The interview begins when the
interviewer first sets eyes on you. Whether you are sitting or standing make
sure that your posture portrays self-confidence. The interviewer extends a hand
to shake and this is the first connection made. Make sure you give a firm, not
bone-crushing handshake. This applies to shaking hands with men and women. While
you are shaking the hand, check out the eye color of the person you are
connecting with. Eye contact is especially important to show confidence.
Preparation will make a huge
difference in your confidence. The act of
writing out your answers to difficult questions, particularly if you have a
"glitch" in your resume or background, is important to sounding prepared.
Read through the job description/posting -- one,
two, three times -- and then read between the lines. What are they looking for?
While you're at it, check out their website and do research on the company. Read
their mission statement. If it "reeks" of teambuilding jargon, make sure you are
prepared to talk about your past experiences working with teams.
Practice makes perfect.
If you rehearse your answers you will feel more confident. Use a tape
recorder, watch yourself in front of a mirror, or get a friend to practice with
you. Practice, practice, practice -- it will make a difference.
Enthusiasm could be the
tie-breaker between you and someone else getting the job.
If there are two or more people interviewing for the
same job, the one that shows passion and interest in the job could be the one
chosen. This is a quality that you will have to feel and not fake. If it isn't
there, it will be difficult to pretend it is. Make sure you are interviewing for
jobs that are of genuine interest to you and not just somewhere to get a
paycheck. You will be happier in the long run and a better performer as well.
Be
Yourself. One of the factors in choosing the right person is finding
out whether you are going to fit in. If you believe in yourself it will be
easier for you to be yourself in the interview. Basically, would these people
interviewing you want to work side-by-side with you day after day? And, would
you want to work side-by-side with them? Remember, this is a two-way process.
You are looking at them at the same time that they are checking you out. Turn up
your intuitive powers. Listen carefully and read between the lines. Is this the
right place for you?
It's OK not to get a job
offer. You won't get a job offer after every interview. It's a tough
job market with lots of competition. Go to the interview and give your best
performance. Once you've done that it is out of your control. Sometimes there
are factors that have nothing to do with you, but will prevent you from getting
that job offer. That's OK -- your turn will come eventually.
Searching for a job is not easy. You may find
your emotions rising and falling like a roller coaster. It's important that you
keep your morale up during this period of job search. Don’t give up. Giving up
is defeat and you're not a quitter!
Carole Martin is a thoroughbred interview
coach. Celebrated author, trainer, and mentor, Carole can give you
interviewing tips like no one else can. Her workbook, "Interview Fitness
Training - A Workout With the Interview Coach," has sold thousands of
copies world-wide and she has just released her latest book, "Boost Your
Interview IQ," both available on Amazon.com. Knock'em Dead - Get the
Job! Sign Up to Receive Free Weekly Interview Tips from Carole Martin,
The Interview Coach at www.interviewcoach.com
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